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Yesterday evening I signed on to Twitter and saw a tweet from a friend of mine, Mark Cherrington which read:

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@MarkCherrington:

 

My fav kid- 15yr girl, lives in group home. Has nothing, wants 2 go 2 Cavalia Horse show. Trying to find a couple tickets for her and sister

I re-tweeted the request and stepped away from my computer to start preparing my dinner. After about 10 minutes or so, I came back and saw that 5 people from around Edmonton had already RT’d and a couple people had responded. One person didn’t have tickets but was willing to donate $100 to the cause. Another person donated 2 tickets for this young girl to go see the Cavalia horse show, to live out a personal dream of hers!

Thank you to ‏@EquiSportsThrpy for offering to donate to this cause. A big thank you to @teganmd for providing a young 15 year old girl with tickets to her dream!

That’s the power behind social media and the human spirit… This is evidence that if used properly and positively, dreams can come true!

On October 3rd, 2012 between 12 and 1pm, approximately 20 of Edmonton’s Social Media community will be coming together to collect donations in an effort to raise enough money to provide 2000 meals for the homeless. More at the Hope Mission website www.HopeMission.com.

Be sure to Follow Scott on Twitter @RealScottWeller for your chance to win prizes which were donated by some supportive businesses.

– 1 FREE week pass to group fitness classes at Ripple Effect Personal Fitness
– 1 FREE nutritional consultation with Marie Tower Nutrition
– 1 FREE 3 month pass to KPC Martial Arts for you and a friend
– 1 FREE Kindle Fire

See you at noon today!

This Morning Motivation Movie is what I use every morning to get me motivated to push forward as I train for the Tough Mudder.

Anytime I’m talking to someone and they are sharing the challenges they are currently facing in life, I almost always refer back to The Coin Technique. In almost every situation, it provides the perspective and clarity needed to move forward out of the funk that individual has dug themselves into.

I wish I could take credit for The Coin Technique but I can’t. I heard about it at a seminar or reading a book somewhere along the way, but my memory escapes me right now. So, for whoever created it originally, I apologize but also, THANK YOU!

What Is The Coin Technique?

The Coin Technique simplified is:

A coin has two sides; one side is heads, the other tails. There are no other options. If you flip a coin, it has no other choice other than to land heads up or tails up. Simple! The Coin Technique is the same. Whenever you’re faced with a decision, challenge or even struggle; remember you have two choices:

1. Heads = leads you towards happiness
2. Tails = leads you away from happiness

Don’t complicate it any further with the creation of multiple different scenarios. The purpose is to create a space to allow yourself the time to decide what you really want as opposed to just reacting to a situation or interaction.

Why The Coin Technique?

As mentioned previously, The Coin Technique offers a simplistic opportunity to slow down the thought process with the intention of avoiding a negative reaction made in haste. It works even better if you take the time to write it out on a piece of paper.

The Coin Technique In Action

Situation: Co-worker embarrassed me in front of other co-workers by insulting the work I was responsible for on the project.

Tails: I can lash back at my co-worker, telling everyone what my co-worker missed and how I had to work overtime to compensate for their incompetence.

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Heads: I can allow myself the strength to understand this is an opportunity for feedback. This could be just the type of honest feedback that will allow me to grow in my position and get to the next level.

Heads or Tails? Which one leads you down the road to sustainable happiness?

Trust me, as simple as it sounds, The Coin Technique works. Try it today!

1. What Is Law of Attraction?

Simply stated, law of Attraction states that “like attracts like”! Your thoughts are like magnet and attract to you whatever you think about, so everything that we experience is brought about as a consequence of our thoughts.

The law of Attraction teaches us to increase our, emotional, physicals and even financial well-being. It encourages a more positive outlook on life and helps people learn how to deliberately attract their wishes and wants from their thoughts straight into their lives.

2. Is The Law of Attraction Working In My Life?

Yes. Your thoughts and feelings create your reality minute by minute. This never stops. We make conscious choices about how to feel and more of it is attracted into our lives. How are you feeling now? Perhaps you feel like complaining about the harsh weather, rude boss or bad traffic. You’d only be attracting more things to complain about. Instead, have you been thankful today for having a roof over your head, a job and a car? By doing this, you will be aligning yourself up for more wonderful things to be thankful for.

3. Why do Law of Attraction strategies sometimes fail to work?

Remember that the Law of Attraction doesn’t fail; it is a universal law just like the Law of Gravity. It can’t fail! So, it must be we, who are failing the law instead. It may not be working for you because of your inner resistance. It may be conscious or subconscious, but there is a part of you that doesn’t believe that you deserve a particular thing that you desire.

4. How Can I Attract My Ideal Life?

Keep your thoughts, ideas and feelings in alignment with your desires; and you will have it. A simple exercise would be to visualize your ideal life, perhaps make a dream board and look at it a few minutes every day. This will remind you of your aspirations and soon the universe will help you achieve your ideal life.

5. What Is Vibration?

Vibration is your thoughts in an energy form working to manifest your desires. Light, heat, electricity; everything has invisible vibrations that help it manifest into something very real and tangible. Every person has similar vibrations, which are powerful thought waves. Mastery over these vibrations can also help us conquer the law of attraction.

6. How Can I Attract More Money?

The first step towards achieving your desires is that you should know what exactly it is that you want. If you want more money, ask yourself how much you want and why. Be it a 25% raise at work or earning a million, before the end of the year. Then take action. Not even the Law of Attraction can make you rich if your only pastime is sitting on a couch. You will have to work towards your goal, once you have decided on it.

7. How Can I Get More Of What I Want?

By asking for it! Once you know what you want, you decide to go after your goals relentlessly.

8. How long does it take before I start attracting what I want?

You are always attracting, so The Law of Attraction is always on!

But you will start attracting your desires when you believe. Do away with all doubt and self- limiting beliefs and permit your requests to manifest instantly!

9. Does this mean that I can be anything I feel like?

Yes and no. The Law of Attraction allows you to reach goals and achieve happiness but it doesn’t mean that you won’t have to work hard for it. It is not some spell that will automatically grant your wishes. Be more grounded and realize that you are the ultimate power here, only you can take the steps and think the thoughts that will make a difference in your life.

What questions do you have about the Law of Attraction?

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The Law of Attraction is a lot of things to a lot of people. There are very many opinions about it and just as many ways of practicing it.

And among all these different opinions, you can be sure of one thing; the Law of Attraction is nothing new! Its following might be cult-like but there is nothing “faddish” about it! A study of the world religions reveals that the concepts are expressed in some of the world’s leading religious texts.

According to the Law of Attraction, all your thoughts and actions warrant an equal reaction from the universe. So goods begets good and vice versa. The Law of Attraction also teaches that you and your thoughts have the power to manifest into the things you desire. Many religions have teachings on par with his concept. Every culture and belief system exercises the teaching of this law.

Jesus says to ask- and it will be given. He doesn’t put any conditions or stipulations on what and how much to ask for. Nowhere does Jesus tell you to have a certain belief in order for your prayers to be answered. And Jesus doesn’t want you to live in misery. Instead, in the Bible, Jesus says that we are to live in abundance!

Similarly, Jewish Kabbalah text also displays evidence of teaching of Law of Attraction in the religion. It teaches of a clear connection between intention, energy and outcomes in life. There is Kabbalistic saying that goes “As above so below, and as below so above.” This means that the happenings on the divine realm affect those on the physical plane and vice versa.

Could this be the Law of Attraction at work?

Kabbalah also teaches that every one of us is but a thought in the mind of God. If God’s thought is a origin of my existence, then my thought of creation is also of God and will surely be made manifest just like all his other thoughts. And along the way I will also create something of God in my life.

Similar teachings are also present in Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism and all the other leading monotheistic/ polytheistic religions of the world. These teachings and the law of Attraction work for everything; relationships, finances, health, material desires as well as spiritual ones. But you do have to be careful of how you ask and what you “really” ask for! Remain positive when requesting of the Universe and don’t fight the fact that you have no control over when you are going to get your desires. The Universe knows better than you.

The Law of Attraction is a universal law. Do you not believe in the Law of Gravity because you are religious? Of course you do!

Similarly, Law of Attraction does not need our validity to be true. It just is like the law of Gravity. Call it the Universe, Creative Source or simply, God! We are an extension of it. And we can’t love and honor God without loving and honoring ourselves first. And since we are a part of it, we too have the power to create. With our thoughts we can help manifest all that we want granted we want it with all our passion.

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Despite all the affirmations and exercises, why is it that some people still don’t get what they want?

The biggest and most common cause for that is negative energy. When we seek from a place of desperation, we give out desperate energy into the Universe. Desperation is essentially our fear, anxiety or even stress, and unfortunately since the universe responds in kind, these are the exact feelings we get back!

When exercising the Law of Attraction it is important to be cautious when making requests of the Universe. Your thoughts should not come from a negative state of mind. Fear takes away our power, so if you are apprehensive and desperate, even your positive thoughts won’t hold much power because of the underlying emotions.

Also remember that even though you put your all into practicing the Law of Attraction, there is something known as “divine timing”! This means that not everything on your wish list will be made available immediately. The Universe knows you best, even better than you know yourself! And even though you want something, it might not be the best time for you to have it. So give yourself up to the wisdom of the Universe instead of delving into negativity about how you never get what you want!

Remember “like attracts like” and you will attract everything you think about.

If you have already subjected yourself to the negativity, then you are no doubt reaping the fruits of it right now!

Many people like the law of Attraction because it gives the ability to create and arrange our own lives. But many more have a hard time believing that nobody else, but they themselves are responsible for creating bad things in their life. You must realize that you have attracted the circumstances in which you lose your job, or are a victim of crime, by having thoughts or feelings that are about these incidences.

Attraction (Photo credit: Scott.Paterson)

In order to become successful you have to keep yourself from reacting to all the negativity around you. The easiest way to do this is by becoming an observer. Don’t participate in fights, arguments or other aggressive name-calling sessions. Take your time in coming up with appropriate responses to any negativity directed at you. Being an observant means overcoming the part of you that wants to be right all the time. Get over the negativity by conquering your anger and remaining calm at all times.

Start your day off with meditation so you become more aware of yourself. Don’t resent anyone; just treat people as you would like to be treated. Remember that everyone and everything in this world is a part of the One True Form, call it the Universe or call it God. So if you resent one part of it, you are sending the negative feelings towards yourself as well.

Negativity also stems from the need to control. This need generates a lot of stress and when your controls end up being useless (which they will), negative feelings are generated. Just be. Always remember that no one can really control a situation forever, just go with the flow and be at peace with yourself and your choices.

Allow others and let yourself live at ease. You will discover that the negative, off-putting thoughts will lessen and more positive energy will flow into your life.

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That which is like is drawn unto itself!

Sounds simple… doesn’t it!

You will attract the thoughts, energies, vibrations and desires that you create in your mind. We use the law of attraction every day, mostly subconsciously. Perhaps a good friend loaned you money in your time of need, or maybe your boss gave you a hard time at work; you attracted it all! Wouldn’t it be just amazing to be able to knowingly attract all the goodness and success that the world has to offer?

Ask and Believe, and you shall Receive!

So, it’s a 3-step program!

Ask- set your intentions and make decisions about what you want out of life!

Universe is created of thoughts and therefore responds to thoughts! Know exactly what you want, be clear about it or you might get unwanted results. Be enthusiastic about it. Make a conscious effort to attract in your life. While making everyday choices, ask yourself if your selection will help you achieve your intentions or will it hinder? Make sure to keep your thoughts positive. Think of it as if the universe doesn’t understand negation or negativity. For example, if you intend to “not be fat”, you will end up even fatter. Instead, be determined to “be thin and healthy” and the whole universe will conspire to help you achieve it.

Next step is to Believe!

Most people affirm to themselves regularly what they want out of life, but many just don’t believe they can get it. The resist the offerings of the Universe because they don’t love themselves enough, they don’t think they deserve it!

So, stand in front of a mirror, look right into your own eyes and say: “I love you”, followed by your name!

Did you feel at ease doing that or was the experience full of stress, tension and negativity?

If the exercise made you feel depressed, frustrated and angry then you have just discovered the biggest cause to all your personal unhappiness and miseries. You have to be able to appreciate yourself for all the hard work you do in order for it to bear the desired outcomes.

Do the above exercise, at least a dozen times daily and you will learn to believe yourself. This will help you attract and appreciate all the goodness that this world has to offer.

Resistance to success (and better health, more money, respect, abundance etc.) is caused by resistant thoughts. Thoughts like “I am not good enough” or “I will never have enough money” or “life is unfair” will attract more of the same in reality. Our thoughts are like magnets, think good things, make an effort towards achieving them and they will materialize eventually. Bad thoughts prevent the flow of Universe’s energy, keeping us struggling in the same manner. Your sole duty here is to ask for everything you want, don’t look for it because it’s only letting the Universe know that you don’t have it which will attract… not having it!

And when you finally do receive it, be grateful. Give thanks for everyday of your life. Gratitude is also a strong part of the law of Attraction. And if it is taking its time then be patient. It is the Universe’s job to worry about how and when. All you can do is ask for it, let the Universe do the rest for you.

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Once upon a time, when I was sitting alone on a park bench, I kept watching people as they went by. I saw some people jogging. Kids there were running and laughing. There were old people playing chess with one another and then there were these couples walking hand in hand, smiling and happy. As if they had everything they ever wanted in this world.

I thought to myself, “Why can’t I have something like that?” Surely, I’m not the first person in the world to ever ponder over something like that. Everybody presumably does that once in a while.

Anyways, I kept recalling the lines people had told me over the years about my self-esteem. “You can’t love anybody if you can’t learn to love yourself”. How many times have you heard that? I’d bet on a thousand or even more. Painful as it might be, it’s true.

If you can’t put yourself in a positive position and be happy for yourself, then you can’t use the law of attraction bestowed by the universe. The law states that likes attract and if you don’t like yourself then you really can’t like anyone who’s like you.

So how was I supposed to like myself? I mean I’ve hated looking in the mirror all my life because I knew I would be seeing someone I didn’t like or more specifically, someone I never loved. That was my problem. I wasn’t looking for someone to be liked so naturally the universe kept me apart from my mate as well.

One day, I don’t know how but with a lot of reading and listening, I was able to stare at myself in the mirror. Heck I realized that I didn’t even know what I looked like. I took one good look at myself and said, “I’m not that bad. I’m human aren’t I? What more could I possibly want?”

That’s when I started paying attention to myself. I began listening to love songs that made my heart tickle. I actually felt happy. Something I don’t feel that often.

I started visualizing myself with someone who cares for me. Someone, who makes my day worthwhile, someone who enjoys going out, someone I couldn’t live without, and someone who feels the same way about me.

I followed the law of attraction. I started going out all by myself, doing the things that made me feel good. I was enjoying my time hence, I was perfectly preparing myself for my perfect mate.

The universe harvests on our energies, positive or negative. It gives us the resultant of what we feel and how we treat ourselves. It knows the true person inside us and unless we are really happy and content, it won’t give us the ideal life we want because it knows we are picturing something totally different.

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